All of us have experienced pain. The question is “How do you deal with the pain”? Do you allow it to pierce your confidence and sabotage your efforts like gasoline into a fresh wound? Do you go through the pain, acknowledge the hurt and muscle through it? Do you ignore it, brush it under the rug, and trudge on?
How we deal with pain affects our ability to step into our greatness, be in service and get paid handsomely for it.
Can you see how you deal with pain affects your ability to succeed? It can give you strength, or it can be like reopening an old wound again and again and again. Nursing old wounds takes your time, energy and focus away from action steps that lead to your success and happiness. And clarity is nearly impossible.
Pain festers, becoming resentment and anger sabotaging your efforts and relationships with clients. You may think it doesn’t show but it does come across. Are your sales down? This could be why.
My clients know that being a successful entrepreneur involves a lot of self growth. Putting yourself out there and asking for money seems like an open invitation for all your past demons to come up. If you don’t deal with them in a constructive manner, all your efforts will be squashed. Doubts creep in and you’ll ask yourself if what you offer is really good enough to charge money for. It’s important to have tools and support to help you through these challenging times (we all have them).
Here are some tools you can use right away to help you through the challenging times:
Action Steps ~
Be raw honest with yourself. You’re the only one seeing your answers.
Write these questions down, and your answers. Spend time with this.
Ask yourself deep down:
- Do I deserve to succeed? Why? Why not?
- Why am I not successful yet?
- Am I keeping myself occupied with tasks that keep me away from fulfilling my life purpose? If so, which tasks should I let go of?
- Are there are areas in my life where I’m not dealing with pain?
Get support – someone you trust who will not judge you.
And, of course, your welcome to attend the free Inner Circle tele-class Removing the Pain That’s Blocking Your Financial Abundance and Happiness. Space is limited. Let us know you want to attend and we’ll hold your space.
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